Money
In many countries, people increasingly talk about money such as how much they earn or how much they pay for things in their daily conversations. Why? Is this a positive or negative trend?
In recent years, it has become increasingly common for individuals to engage in daily conversations about money. From my perspective, this shift can be attributed to changes in social etiquette, and it represents a largely negative trend.
The newfound openness around discussing financial matters is a result of shifting social norms. In previous generations, conversations about money were considered impolite, and people were generally reserved to avoid appearing boastful or desperate. However, many traditional social norms have evolved, including those related to discussing personal finances. This change allows people to openly discuss money with friends and family, often as a means of addressing anxieties about the future or asserting their social status. For example, some individuals, particularly those who are wealthy, may engage in conversations about their investments or properties to impress others and enhance their own self-esteem.
Engaging in frequent discussions about money has overall negative implications as it perpetuates an unhealthy mindset. While there are situations where discussing money can be constructive, such as when offering financial advice or assisting friends, these instances are exceptions. In most cases, people discuss money primarily to alleviate their own anxieties or to engage in self-promotion. Over time, individuals can develop a reliance on the fleeting dopamine rushes associated with seeking pity or seeking validation through money-related conversations, making it difficult for them to transition to more meaningful and enjoyable topics of discussion. Paradoxically, this habit may exacerbate their anxieties and insecurities rather than providing genuine relief.
In conclusion, the prevalence of money-centric conversations stems from a shift in social acceptability, but it fosters an unhealthy habit. It is more beneficial to focus on more significant and fulfilling topics of conversation rather than perpetuating a fixation on personal finances.